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DD has had male friends all her life. She was unsure about him so didn't let him get too close and eventually let him go. Then, around her 16th birthday, she reconnected with a boy who was a good friend since they were 10 but hadn't gotten to see much of last year. They started officially dating early Spring. Honestly, I thought I'd freak out when she first got a boyfriend but she's very obviously happy. He's a really fantastic kid who we've always liked. He drives but he it's against the law for him to drive her until he's had his license a whole year so not until January.

She only has a permit. It's a teen relationship.

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Who knows how long it'll last but it's happy and healthy now and we approve. DD's school friends started doing the fake school boyfriend sort of thing in middle school. The kids never actually went anywhere.

They were basically lunch time boyfriends. DD never got into that scene.

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Her friends outside of high school pretty much all waited until 16 without having any rules about it. DS is 12 and I know he has a crush but he avoids that scene too.

I don't suspect he'll be ready until around 16 too. Do kids even date anymore? Frankly, they weren't even doing that when I was a kid in the eighties. The only way you could have a real, old fashioned date was if one of you drove a car, so one of us was at least I think limits on dating are I mean really, what difference does it make if the kid goes to a restaurant alone with someone versus hanging out at the mall with that someone and a group of friends, etc.?

I've always understood limits on dating to be about sex because how can stop a relationship from developing? Placing limits, IME, simply sends a message that they will need to be more "creative" i. Not the sort of relationship I want with my kids. My 13 year old now has her first bf and that mostly consists of them hanging out at our house or her at his house. And as far as them having sex, I think that if kids want to do it they will whethere we want them to or not. I'd rather mine be open with me and know that I'm here to guide them and support them rather than hiding their activities from me.

My 16 year old is sexually active and she knows she can come to me at anytime. My 13 year old isn't active yet but when that time comes she knows she can talk to me about it. My second teen is I didn't follow any certain age guidelines but I went by personality, trust issues, behavioral issues And so far this is just the way things turned out by chance. My parents' rule was that I be 16, but a few months before I turned 16 the fair was in town and I was asked to go on a date to it and my mom approved.

That was the days of Big Hair and it rained!! But I have very fond memories of my first date: It makes me feel better about their relationship when the partner is willing to "share" time. My toddler has known my oldest daughter's bf since she was about 6 months old and she ADORES him and loves when he comes over. And he holds her and plays, and for some reason things like that matter to me.

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I used to be a single mother and if I dated I had to deal with those guys interacting with my baby so I was very watchful. My son has always had female and male friends both. I know he was hanging out with one girl in particular in the 8th grade. He is between his junior and senior years now and mostly hangs out with a great group of kids, but no one person is more special then the others. However I see nothing "wrong" with it if he was dating some one special.

Early to mid teen years seems common to start dating here. We are Christian and actively discourage sex before marriage so when they do start dating there will be strict guidelines surrounding it. My kids can date when they can drive. I want them to be able to leave a situation if need be and I don't want them in a car with other young drivers. So they'll have to meet up.

For my parents, dating was a little more traditionally viewed. Individuals showed interest and "dated" to get to know each other. You could date people without it developing into a relationship. You could be dating several people at a time without looking like a tramp. They just didn't have as many opportunities to know each other in a more casual way like kids today do.

Generally, you were friends first. You'd already gone to the movies as buddies with no expectations of kissing and such. You had already gotten to know each other enough to make a commitment through co-ed activities and projects. My husband was found this way. It wasn't until mid 20's that I really saw my friends start dating in a traditional way In my daughter's generation, I actually see a resurgence of the traditional date.

She has gotten asked out on "dates" with boys who are interested but whom she has had limited interaction with. These she refused but we know many girls who are very comfortable with this style. DD's boyfriend came from a long term friendship. They only had one "date" prior to establishing their relationship though most kids will still say "oh yeah, they are dating now. My DD's best friends have always been males.

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She has been having boys to the house, going to their house, seeing movies, etc with boys since 3rd grade. None were boyfriends and none considered dates. In fact dd's best friend a male she has known since they were 6 months old together. I didn't date as a teen, and now I have a 14 year old daughter, but this issue has not arisen yet. My youngest had her first "date" at 10 - with the boy across the street they were best friends. When we got home, he walked her to the door and gave her a kiss on the cheek.

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All very sweet and innocent. In some ways, I think she uses him as the standard. As for more serious dating? She didn't have anyone she was interested in otherwise until she was 16ish. You mean what will the guidelines be? Okay, well for us purity before marriage is really important.

I know that isn't the case for most on here but those are our beliefs. I'm not talking purity in a Duggar family kind of way, just that we believe sex should be saved for marriage and that a serious romantic relationship can lead to too much temptation. So some things I can think of off the top of my head are dating in groups and encouraging them not to be alone in a one on one capacity.

No dating anyone when they are over 16 that we have not gotten to know a substantial amount. If they are not willing to do that then clearly they don't belong in a relationship with my child. We believe in not focusing so much on romantic relationships at a young age - you have the rest of your life to be exclusive with someone, youth should be for making friends, finding yourself, setting goals for the future. But we will teach them our beliefs and we will set rules.

Are you sure you want to delete this answer? I first met my boyfriend at work, I was 15 and he was 18, now i'm 17 and hes 20 we've been together for three years and things have always been great. Nothing was awkward we had a good time. We started talking because we both had an industrial piercing.

As long as your comfortable with the person it should all just be natural: We went to The Movies then Golden Corral. I Didn't think it was uncomfortable at all. We always would get in trouble at school together. But He is absolutely Amazing. Whenever we see each other we still Hug. We're friends with Benefits Now: But Yes I was scared at first but it got easier!

I was 15, but 1 month shy of becoming I was nervous at first, it took us about 2 months to even kiss he had other girlfriends before me. I developed feelings enough by 6 months and thought I was completely in love with him. After 6 months though, it didn't go so well. He became controlling what I wear, friends, makeup etc and what not.. We ended up dating a year and a half and he left me 3 months ago actually, because apparently Im a liar..

He tried to come crawling back to me but I refused. I realized after a year and a half, he wasn't the person I thought he was. Sometimes I still think about him, and I know I loved him but it was an unhealthy relationship, and I can't quite think of why I would miss that.

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I know I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him, there's a difference. I first dated at 15, I'm now almost Don't let your first relationship set your standards because it has ruined all of my friends.. I first dated a boy for a year, but it wasn't what I wanted. I'm now with a girl and have been for over a year and I'm happy as ever. It's my second relationship. I was 17 and I went on my first real 'date'. I was excited and I was a little nervous, but it went well.

We didn't kiss until we had been dating for awhile because I was SO nervous! I really liked him though, so I'm glad at least my first kiss really meant something to both of us. It was gross though, but things like that of course get better with time ;.